1.
I was struck by Diana’s description of mainline
congregations, “…although they are not always open to change, that’s not the
primary feeling in the congregations.
Their primary emotion is grief.
They are grieving the fact that their churches are declining, that their
children are going away, and that the traditions they love might disappear. They are in mourning” (p. 172). Discuss.
2.
In Chapter 6, “Belonging,” Diana makes this
statement: “Church is no longer
membership in an institution, but a journey toward the possibility of a
relationship with people, a community, a tradition, a sacred space, and of
course, God” (p. 192). What thoughts do you have about what Diana
says?
3.
I drank my morning coffee from a mug that was
given to me by a congregation of our synod.
On one side of the mug is the congregation’s logo and name. On the other side is the website , phone
number and the slogan, “A place to belong, believe and become.” I am sure that the order was chosen quite
deliberately. It has made me stop and
think on many mornings. Diana suggests that
Western Christianity traditionally ordered faith from belief to behavior to
belonging (p. 201). Now, she says, we
need to reverse the order to belonging, behaving, and belonging (p.
204ff). Does this make some sense to
you? How might that change your
congregation?
4.
Diana sums up the chapter, “The Great Reversal,”
by saying this: “Relational community,
intentional practice, and experiential belief are forming a new vision for what
it means to be Christian in the twenty-first century, a pattern of spiritual
awakening that is growing around the world” (p. 214). How would you respond to Diana’s assertion
and do you see this trend developing in your congregation?